Sensation by Isabel Losada

Author:Isabel Losada
Language: eng
Format: epub
Tags: Sensation: Adventures in Sex, Love and Laughter
ISBN: 9781786780935
Publisher: Watkins Media
Published: 2017-08-03T04:00:00+00:00

Living in a San Francisco Clitoris Stroking Community

So it’s Monday. The OMX conference is over and I’m settling in to the peace and quiet of living at 1080. I’m glad it’s over. All the noise and hype of the conference is far away from the simple and subtle pleasure of the practice. But I missed a few good things yesterday. A lecture from Dr Sara Gottfried on hormone balance and how it affects health and sexuality. The message, as relayed to me second hand, is that stress is bad and raising your oxytocin levels in a safe way is good. Here OMing is the answer to everything. Stressed? OM more. Unhappy? OM more. Sick? OM more. Well, it’s free and pleasure feels very good for the body so there is a certain logic to it. I’ll read about how to keep my hormone levels healthy later in her book, The Hormone Cure.

As I write this, a man walks into the room that I’m actually attracted to. I fix up an OM with him later in the week.

‘Would you like to OM?’ I ask him. Yayyyy – did it.

‘Yes, I would.’

I feel a little warm flush go through me now every time I see him walk past. And this morning one of the other men that live in the San Francisco house that I have a good connection with kissed me on the cheek and I felt a warm sensation pass through my calf muscles. I guess I’m finally tuning in – noticing the sensations in my body, and that I’m alive.

Being in this house is extraordinary.

Let’s consider this for a second. The differences between an OM and regular sex are: OM is chosen by both parties on every occasion, a forced OM would be impossible; both parties are always sober (no one drinks before OMing as it’s about increased not decreased focus and awareness); the practice takes 15 minutes only so no one feels obliged to buy dinner; the oxytocin is raised easily in women – unlike sex it would be almost impossible for a woman to feel no pleasure during an OM and, if there is climax her dopamine level is raised too; the man knows he is learning as he is watching her vulva for feedback; no one gets pregnant – you don’t need to go on the pill, put coils in your body or use condoms; no one has to get jealous as anyone can OM with anyone any time; and the men are needed by the women and appreciated by them. Not too bad huh?

Now before you decide that it really is a cult and I’ve been totally brainwashed – I am not saying that living in a polyamorous community centred on this practice is any way better than the nuclear family model … but I am saying that it’s certainly not necessarily any worse either.

And is this a cult? Well, it certainly has aspects that feel cult-like but no, it’s not a cult, it’s a business.

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